Since we’re talking about sin, you probably heard of lying (bearing false witness) and stealing; murder and adultery; not honoring your father and your mother and covetousness; see Exodus 20:3-17, the Ten Commandments; also including don’t make or worship idols, don’t take the Lord’s Name in vain, remember the Sabbath to keep it holy, and the most important one, ‘you shall have no other gods besides Me [the One True God].’
But we’re not talking about those kinds of sin, what we show to the world as sin. We’re talking about what is going on in your heart; all the things that give rise to the sins that we exhibit to the world. Things like fear and shame, and guilt and worry, depression, hate and unforgiveness, arrogance and control. James says in his letter to the churches, in chapter 1:14-15 14“But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. 15 Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death.” What was it Jesus said about what defiles a person? In Matthew 15:17-19, 17He said, “It’s not what goes in your mouth, but what comes out of your mouth that defiles you, 18 But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man. 19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies. Those things defile a man.”
How do we get away, and stay away, from sin like that? The short answer is, “Turn to God”. Like John the Apostle says, in 1 John 1:9, “If you’ll confess your sins, God is faithful and just to forgive you, and to cleanse you from all unrighteousness.” But ultimately, it’s like Jesus says in Luke 9:23, “If you want to be my disciple, deny yourself, take up your cross [that means die to your self] daily, and follow Me.” It’s a lifetime commitment. If you keep on drawing near to God, He will definitely keep on drawing near to you. (James 4:8) It’s His life that will make you whole. It’s His righteousness (not yours) that will keep you from sinning, more and more every day.