“God has a purpose for your life. All you’ve got to do is figure out what it is.” [This is from a letter to my ‘young-adult’ kids in 1995] “I used to wonder what I was doing here. Sometimes I even wondered what you were doing here. I finally got the message. God has a plan for my life. Actually, I think He has a plan for every person’s life, but some folks never figure out what it is.
“When I was a kid I bought into the idea that goal setting and goal pursuing and goal orientation were the way to achieve everything I wanted in life, and happiness too! When I was 15 I wanted $1 million by the time I was 30. I focused a lot of attention on it. I read the right books and tried to practice what they preached. But somehow it never worked for me. I guess I just didn’t want it bad enough. I just couldn’t get motivated enough. I had a lot of other things on my mind. Looking back, maybe God didn’t want me to be a millionaire.
“After I got baptized in the Holy Spirit, I started seeing differently. I decided that God had a purpose for my life, a destiny. Somehow, I got the message that God has a role (really a bunch of roles) for me to play in my life. In fact each of us is given a number of readymade roles to play when we’re born. Like the role of a son or a daughter, the role of brother or sister. Then pretty soon you get the role of student, then later employee, then girlfriend or boyfriend, then husband or wife, then father or mother, then maybe employer, or doctor or lawyer, or teacher, or preacher, or seeker or finder. What fulfills your destiny, and God’s purpose, is for you to be the very best you can at whatever role God has given you for that time. And what’s really neat is that this will make you happy. Seems to me that chasing a goal is not very fulfilling, but being best in your role is very fulfilling, and with your role you fit into God’s plan perfectly. Just remember when you can’t figure out what you’re doing here, or where you’re going, or why; focus on being that person, that character, the very best you possibly can. You’ll be surprised how happy it will make you.
“The thing that separates the exceptional people in the world, the 2-3%, and the rest of the folks, is that the 2-3% have realized that God has a grand design for their lives. (Here again, a lot of people call it a lifetime goal, which is OK with me.) Many people spend all their time just living from day to day, so they never have time to fulfill that grand design. Eating and sleeping, working and raising kids may be enough for most folks, but it’s not enough for me. I may never amount to a hill of beans, but it won’t be because I didn’t try. Oh, and by the way, I still think that grand design is about the role you play in your life with other people; not so much about making a million dollars, or being the President, or climbing the highest mountain, or building the biggest building, even though those are perfectly OK things to aspire to. (Heck, if you don’t aspire to something, you’ll never amount to anything.)
“But in the end, the best way to help other people is to get in tune with God’s purpose for our lives, and focus our attention on fulfilling His grand design for us. In the meantime we will still have time to eat and sleep and play and have fun and raise kids, just like everybody else. And we may do something truly memorable.”